She went on to say, "We have deep admiration for one another that will always remain" saying that she will "cherish" their friendship. Katie shared the end of their union with a heartfelt message in the spirit of being "open about my life with you." She wrote of the end of their marriage, but noted that "this ending is not met with resentment or animosity, no sides to choose." On Tuesday, the couple took to Instagram to confirm in separate statements they had decided to go their different ways. She concluded the short episode by saying "the romantic side is over" between her and Tom, "but the friendship is still there." While she's had moments where she's second-guessed the choice, she added, "when everything else burning inside of you is telling you that you deserve more, you have to listen to that." Maloney said telling Tom about her decision was difficult, "because I knew it was going to crush him" - but they've had productive, peaceful and supportive conversations with each other since. I felt like I was drifting further and further away and I couldn't stop it." That's just what everything inside of me was saying, it got to a point where I just felt like I was going to burst," she continued. "I just realized that I had to really start prioritizing myself and my happiness as well. "Ultimately, I was just not fulfilled," she added. She explained that she sat with the decision for "a long time" but came to the realization that she never really prioritized herself or her happiness in their relationship. Of where things went wrong, she explained that "the best and only way I can describe it is just like waking up inside of my life and having this voice that just became louder and louder and just events in my life and in our relationship coming into focus and feeling the weight of them on me and I wanted to deny them, I wanted to push them out of my head because I love Tom and we built a life together and he's my person and I wanted to be with him forever. It was my decision, which was probably the hardest and most painful decision I've ever had to make," she continued, getting audibly choked up. "There wasn't some kind of crazy incident that happened, there wasn't some crazy fight that resulted in this. She added that they've been peacefully coexisting in the same home despite the split - for now - and were doing their best to avoid awkwardness or having their friends "pick sides" in the breakup. We do still live together in our house and we're trying to navigate these steps together and work on becoming friends in that sense." It's also been, in ways, peaceful and loving and the transition so far is going really well. It's been a little bit of time now, a little over a month that we've been separated," she shared. "I know to some people it may seem like an abrupt thing, but for us, it's not like we just decided this this week, yesterday or the day before. She also thanked all her followers for their support during this tough time, before detailing where the two stand now. Maloney acknowledged that the news "may or may not come as a shock" to fans and that while "it's still kind of a tender topic," she was willing to still talk about it. Waiting for your permission to load the Instagram Media.
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